It's time to go "off book".
One of the best ways to decondition our brains from a place of anxiety and perfection is to increase our ability to go “off-book” and be spontaneous.
How can we live in a world where we use schedules and systems to optimize our lives while also making time to play, explore, and make space to actually connect with and respond to what our body is asking for?
Planning is great, but it is entirely logical. We have to consider our emotional and physical selves in the equation and learn to broaden our understanding of commitment and productivity. We can be scheduled without becoming rigid. We can make a plan while allowing fluidity and flexibility.
The past few weeks, I have actively worked to make space for this in my daily life, not just when I am with Everly. At work, during a workout, making dinner — what do I want and need in this moment? How does the plan sit with me? What’s the purpose of the plan? And is there a way to be open to it changing?
I have allowed myself to have ideas but not get stuck in a plan. I have focused on my values for showing up to a day rather than what I need to do. I can be incredibly productive and hard-working at work without getting everything on my list done. And sometimes, focusing on things having to be a certain way or getting everything done only leads me to half-engage in my work.
How can you make more space for openness and spontaneity?
What does it look like to find the balance between scheduled and unscheduled, controlled and uncontrolled?
What would it look like to assess how you feel when you look at your plan and adjust to ensure you are getting what you need and want while also staying the course on your goals and intentions?
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